A large portion of us has played the "verbal" game in our experience growing up. A few groups would arrange next to each other, the principal individual would agree that something was in the ear of the following individual, and afterward, the players would alternate moving information exchanged in their ear to the following individual, and the last individual would yell without holding back that they comprehended. In some cases shockingly, he expressed a sentence different from what the principal individual said to the last individual. While even in a straightforward game, what is told and perceived can be different, many off-base and generalized data that we assume we know as obvious can arise regarding a matter, for example, "sexuality", which isn't invited to be examined, talked about or made sense of in our nation and many regions of the planet. When sexuality happens in the social construction as a dishonorable, evil, and despicable subject that ought not to be discussed, individuals attempt to find out about it in their specific manner as opposed to discussing it transparently. Now and again, this bogus data is gained from companions, once in a while, it shows itself in the visual and printed media, and some of the time the wrongs that are known to be valid, and some of the time the scenes found in pornography films are seen as activities. Since sexuality is as yet seen as an untouchable in our country, a point that ought not to be discussed, and individuals attempt to realize this data, which they can only with significant effort get, in their specific manner.
Indeed, what do we mean by "sexual fantasies", assuming you ask what it implies, they are deceptions about sexuality that are false, don't mirror reality, have no logical premise, yet have spread from informal exchange throughout the long term and have become acknowledged by everybody? We can likewise call these sexual creations, strange notions or fiction.
At the point when we take a gander at sexual legends today, tragically, they can obscure the existence of people and couples. Individuals and couples who have issues in their sexual life because of notable misrepresentations about sexuality are expanding step by step. In our country, "sexual schooling" that ought to be given from the age of 4-5 isn't given, and sexuality is seen as a subject that ought not to be discussed, endlessly censured when spoken. In this way, it is unavoidable to encounter sexual issues in any event, while beginning from noise and when sexuality isn't learned consistently. Since these misleading data get comfortable the unaware of the individual as outright bits of insight from early on.
Sex fantasies that can cause sentiments, for example, uselessness, insufficiency, and responsibility can likewise cause sexual dysfunctions like untimely discharge and vaginismus. Likewise, an individual's age, orientation, and different conditions decide how and the amount they will be hurt by sexual legends. For instance, while sexual fantasies about sexual execution influence men more, sexual legends that the body will be hurt by sex influence ladies more.
Confusions about sexuality both keep individuals from encountering sexuality agreeably and charmingly, and they can likewise keep individuals from treatment since it is seen as a subject to be embarrassed about and denounced. Instructive establishments, well-being foundations, and other important organizations of the state have extraordinary obligations in the stages of preparation to be given about sexuality.
So what are these sexual fantasies and what are they about? We should harp on the most significant of them.
1. Men generally need sex and are dependably prepared for it.
It is quite possibly the most well-known fantasy. This thought can make a man have extraordinary execution nervousness and bring on some issues with erection. For instance, numerous men experience untimely discharge on a primary evening and afterward feel miserable and restless rather than the prospect that it very well may be normal, and this can cause a consistent feeling of disappointment and insufficiency when they property it to the possibility of not being a full man. This can transform into factors that trigger and proceed with sexual dysfunctions like untimely discharge and barrenness. Likewise, it can cause contrariness between companions in marriage life and shake the groundwork of marriage life as a serious pressure factor.
2. In sexuality, the male is the ruler, he knows it all. The male ought to start the sexual demonstration.
This fantasy is straightforwardly connected with being a lady and a man in the social sense and to the comprehension of orientation. Assuming we think for our general public, it prompts the continuation of this latent job by underscoring the comprehension that ladies ought to be aloof. It likewise keeps couples from creating themselves regarding sexuality. Likewise, as indicated by this sexual fantasy, the one who starts the demonstration of sexuality is a light, improper lady. Notwithstanding investigates show that sexual demonstrations started by ladies are more fulfilling for the two genders.3. Frequent sexual intercourse is an indicator of masculinity, sexual performance, and sexual power.
When considered for both sexes, sexual desire levels between couples may be different. This situation can turn sexuality from being a pleasure into an obligation, and serious problems may arise in terms of marriage.
4. Sexuality consists of inserting the penis into the vagina.
This myth is directly related to the understanding that sexuality is only about procreation and reproduction. However, sexuality is an action that includes many elements such as touching, focusing on touching, giving pleasure and pleasure. Sexuality experienced with this understanding can also pave the way for arousal disorders and the inability to orgasm, especially in women.
5. No talking during lovemaking.
It is very important for couples to talk, to say words that will make each other feel special while making love. As in all areas of life, positive communication adds color to action in sexuality.
6. Women enjoy sexual intercourse a lot.
The pleasure of sexual intercourse is affected by many factors such as the situation, the environment, and the relationship of the partners, and every woman and man can get a lot of pleasure from the sexual act. Feeling such an obligation can decrease the pleasure they will experience and increase their potential to have problems.
7. There is nothing new to discover about sexuality. Sexuality is instinctive, unlearned.
Although it is instinctive and biologically based, many things about sexual attitudes and behaviors occur through learning. And sexuality, in this sense, is one of the most open areas for people to develop and change themselves. Sexuality is perhaps an area that we humans think we know a lot, about but have a lot of incomplete and wrong information about. That's why it's important to get information through the right resources, books, and sexual therapists….
8. The main purpose of sexuality is to have an orgasm, when the orgasm ends, the sexuality ends.
Perhaps one of the most hurtful myths is this myth. The purpose of sex is to enjoy, to enjoy. An understanding of sexuality that focuses on the result, not the process, pushes couples to see it as a duty rather than a pleasure.
9. Touching, caressing, kissing, etc. All physical contact must result in sexual intercourse.
We have explained above that sexuality does not consist of the union of the penis and vagina. Actions such as touching, caressing, and kissing are also very important parts of sexuality, and every touch and kiss does not have to result in sexual intercourse. In fact, such touches that do not end with sexual intercourse increase the desire and desire of couples for each other. A good example would be a slogan like this: “Touch seven times, make love once!”
10. Masturbation is dirty and harmful.
It is one of the oldest and most widespread myths known. It causes feelings of regret and guilt in the person. It is also based on the idea that it causes many physical and mental problems. In addition, the understanding obtained from society and parents is also effective in the formation of this myth. Masturbation does not cause any physical or mental problems, is not harmful, and does not form a habit. It is a natural part of sexuality. It is natural for married couples or older people to do it, it is a matter of preference.
11. The size of a man's penis is very important.
It is a myth that has taken its place in human life since the primitive ages. For one of those ages, the symbol of power and power for men is a big hardened penis. This myth, which is frequently used in pornographic publications, triggers feelings of inadequacy in many men and worries them. In addition, it causes the prejudice that women can only enjoy with a large penis. However, a very large penis often causes pain to women. Just because a man's penis is small doesn't necessarily mean he's incompetent. Studies have shown that the point that women enjoy the most is 1/3 (3 cm) of the vagina. In addition, pleasure can be given and enjoyed even when the penis is not erect, and something more important than size is sexual knowledge and experience.
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